7 Secrets Of A Happy Family (Part 2)

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3. MUTUAL RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER: In every family where there is mutual respect for each other, fighting and quarreling is reduced to the barest minimum. In any family where there is mutual respect; abuse of all kind, tension and friction are drastically reduced. When a wife respects her husband and a husband respects his wife and the children also respect their parents and vice vassal, there is usually mutual understanding and peace and happiness becomes a normal way of life.

4. SPENDING TIME TOGETHER: Time is one of the world most valuable assets. With the quest for money and fat bills to pay, married couples spend less time with their spouses and children. They have replace quality time with each other with TV, DVD and video games. Married couples travel extensively, work late into the night and come back fagged out, only to eat and go to bed. Repeat the same circle for weeks, months and years doing the same thing over and over again, while the family suffers. A lot people to supplement time for money, cars, gifts, electronics, etc. unfortunately, time has no substitute. We must find time to be together, if we want to stay together. A family that stays together live in harmony and a family that live in harmony enjoy peace and happiness.
If there is one thing a child or spouse love and value most, it's the time they spend with their parents and spouse. Most children and wives complain that their husbands and fathers hardly have time for them and this makes them very unhappy.
I was watching wrestling the other day, Ted DiBiasi, a WWE superstar slapped his father in the face. His reason was because according to him; his father never had time for him when he was growing up. You can imagine how he has felt all these years about his dad.
I want to point out that we can never find time for family unless we create time for them. I know that we are in an age where every second is very precious. But nothing can be so precious than our family. If we must have a happy home, we must create time to be together with the family...


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