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The sexual satisfaction of married couple go a long way in enhancing their relationship. The root cause of most problems in marriages can be traced to sex. Either the man is sexually dysfunctional or the woman don't enjoy it. When a man is sexually effective, he feels proud, it increases his confidence and he feels sexually fulfilled but if he is sexually dysfunctional, it affects his ego. He feels frustrated, incompetent and begin to have the feeling of low self esteem. The woman in turns feels unsatisfied and begins to desire other men outside.  Funny enough, most couple don't like to talk about this. This see it as their private problem. They pretend as if everything is fine but they are crying inside. Research has proven that most sexual enhanced drugs and pills have side effects. The best way to solve sexual dysfunction especially in men is to eat fresh fruits. Some of them are listed below 1. RAW ONIONS: Research say, fresh onion juice increases testosterone. A mixt...

Life is all about choices. Every day we are faced with numerous choices. The choice we make can either make or break us. There are good and bad choices. Each decision we make will go a long way to affect our lives positively or negatively. The choices we make today not only affect us today, but also affect our tomorrow. So it is very important to know to how to make good decision. Not any decision, but good decisions. The following are steps you need to take in making good decisions: 1. GET ADEQUATE INFORMATION: Before making any important decision, try and get adequate information about whatever you want to decide on. Because of lack of information, a lot of people have made decisions that they later regretted, saying if they had had the information they had now, they wouldn't have made the foolish decision they made10 years ago. Lack of information brings about deformation. There are some people who would not have married the man they call their husband if they had got...

A friend betrayed me some years ago. This provoked this question, "Should I forgive him"? This is a question I have heard over and over again. Some people will say, "You don't understand what he did to me". While others will ask questions like, "He raped me when I was a child and shattered my life. Should I still forgive him"? "He killed my parents before my very presence. Should I forgive him"? "She disappointed me and married someone else. Should I forgive her"? "I caught him in bed with my best friend in our matrimonial home. Should I forgive him"? And so on. I have also asked similar question in time past. My answer to this question, “Should I forgive him"? Is "YES"! Bear with me a little. I will explain to you the reason why I said yes. But first of all, what does it mean, to forgive? I am glad you asked that question. To forgive means to overlook a fault or debt. It also means, to be no longer ang...

Wisdom does not come by chance, but by conscious effort. My primary assignment is to show you how you can become wise. 1. TALK, OBSERVE AND INTERACT WITH THE WISE: For you to become wise, you must talk, observe and interact with the wise. You don't expect to become wise by associate with fools. As iron sharpens iron, so does a man sharpen the countenance of his friend. When you walk, talk and interact with the wise, you will eventually become wise. 2. LISTENING TO PARENTS AND ELDERLY ONES: Listening to parents and elderly people can really make one wise. This is because they have gone through so many things in life. They have made mistakes and learned so much from their mistakes. 3. READING GOOD BOOKS: A lot of people find it difficult to read books. But the truth is that a lot of people share their experiences, discoveries and wisdom through books. So if you want to get wisdom, read good books. 4. LISTENING TO GOOD COUNSELLORS: When you listen to good counsel, y...

Once in a while, we all get knocked down in one area of our life or the other. Our struggle in life is such that some times we win, while other times we lose. There are times we are down in our health, finance, spirituality, job, marriage, family, emotion, relationships, business, e.t.c. It is not our being knocked down that is really the problem but our attitude when we are down. There are people who become hopeless, frustrated, depressed and afraid to try to get up again, when they are knocked down.  Your being knocked down does not mean that you are finished. It does not mean that you are a failure. It is not the end of the road. It only means that you are not perfect. It only means that you are not there yet. The devil is a liar! I have good news for you. "You can rise again!” The Bible says, "For the righteous man may fall seven times and rise again"(Proverbs 24:32). I don't know the area of your life where you've been knocked down. It might be in y...

In every relationship, there are responsibilities. And for any relationship to succeed, everybody must contribute his or her own quota. A one sided relationship usually ends up in jeopardy. This is because one party is neglecting his or her responsibility. Sometimes responsibilities are neglected because of ignorance other time out of negligence but the truth is that the result remains the same, whether done in ignorance or out of negligence. One important thing a man owes his wife is protection. There are several areas a man is expected to protect his wife, which are as follows 1.   A man is supposed to protect his wife from insult and abuse from children, family members or outsiders. In Africa it is believed that a woman is married not just to her husband but also to his entire family. This believe most times create the opportunity for the man's family member to interfere with their relationship, as much as even coming to insult and beat up the woman. This ought not to...

What is antidote? An antidote is a substance which can counteract a form of poisoning. The term ultimately derives from the Greek ἀντίδοτον antidoton, " given as a remedy". Antidotes for anticoagulants are often referred to as reversal agents. Wikipedia. An antidote simply mean a remedy for something. So antidote for worry and anxiety means remedy or solution for worry and anxiety. T oday a lot of people are dying as a result of anxiety. What does it mean to have anxiety? To have anxiety means to be anxious and to be anxious, means to be worried over something that has not yet happened. You are only being threatened by the threat of the possibility of something bad happening. The devil uses this trick to frustrate people. The devil works through fear, as God works through faith. He tries as much as possible to cause you to be afraid of the possibility of something bad happening. What he does is to preach the sermon of "what if..." to you. He starts by...

When your parents or family disapprove of you getting married to someone you love, I don't think it is wise to just go ahead and get married to whomever you want to marry or quarrel and fight with family members. This will make things worse. It's also not wise to break up engagement your engagement with your fiancé or fiancée, because your family disapprove of the person you want to get married to. In Nigeria where I come from, the respect for parents and elders is very important. Also, if they don't approve of your marriage, they would not give their blessing. Getting your parents or family blessing is one of the best things that can happen to any Nigerian. There are some things which I think you can do to get their approval. 1. Try to find out the reason behind the disapproval of your fiancé or fiancée. This is because there are several reasons why parents and family disapprove marriage with a particular person. Some of them are ethnic, religious, social status,...

Don't let people of small minds create your world for you with their negative words. Don't quit because people said you can't succeed in your venture. That is their opinion. Everybody has the right to his or her opinion. But their opinions don't count. It all depends on you. What are you saying?   Bishop T.D. Jakes was told that he will never be able to sing but he did. He was told he couldn't be on television but he is.  Dr. Myles Monroe was called a black monkey that will never learn but he became the best in his school. What is that thing they said you can't do? What are you saying about it?   Because it's only what you say that matters.  Don't allow people to create your world for you with their mouth, because they will make it too small for you. They will try to cage and limit you with their negative confession. I avoid people with negative thinking and confession like a contagious disease.   This is because if you continue to han...

For any family to stick together, love is a very important ingredient. Love is what holds the family together. In times of trouble and difficulty, love prevails.  In any family where there is love; peace, harmony and happiness is usually enjoyed. Some people think that money can bring happiness in a home. In as much as money is very important, it can't buy happiness. It can buy beautiful houses but not a happy home. It can buy food but not appetite. It can buy good cars but not a happy home. Money can buy latest electronic gadgets but not a happy home. I've seen real wealthy families get divorced. Money wasn't the issue there. They were not happy in the marriage so they thought; the best bet is to break up. Some years ago, I heard about a wealthy man whose wife slept with their gardener. Such things happen every day all around the world. Many marriages today are ending up in divorce and children are running away from home mainly because they are not happy at ho...

The picture you create in your mind can actually affect who you eventually become. If you see yourself as a failure in life, you might just turn out to be one. See yourself in the light of the word of God. The word of God says, “No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us”. Romans 8:37-38 NIV.    The word of God says that you are a conqueror. It says that you are a winner, a victor, a success. So see yourself that way. The fact that you failed some time ago does not make you a failure. The fact that you lost something does not make you a looser. The Bible says, “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made”; Psalm 139:14 The mind is the battle ground. If you can win the war in your mind, you can win it in the physical. Picture yourself as a success. Picture yourself as a winner. See yourself as great, see yourself on top. See yourself as rich. Have a positive mindset. Pull down every negative picture you've been having about ...

Īrōju cālāmandi pillalu vibhinna rakāla samasyalatō edurkoṇṭunnāru. Kānī duradr̥ṣṭakaramaina viṣayaṁ ēmiṭaṇṭē cālāmandi tallidaṇḍrulu tama yavvananlō unna pillalanu ēmaṇṭunnārō mūrtībhavin̄cina ālōcana kūḍā lēdu. Nēnu vāritō parasparaṁ vyavaharin̄cēṭappuḍu nēnu telusukunē konni samasyalanu nēnu cebutānu. Yuvakulu edurkoṇṭunna samasyalu ī krindivi. Itara pillalu pāṭhaśāla vadda tōṭivāri nun̄ci bedirimpulu mariyu evarainā ceppaḍaṁ lēdu bedirin̄cāru lēdā tīvraṅgā vyavaharistāru evaru pillalu cālā unnāyi. Mī pillavāḍu iṇṭiki bhayapaḍi, vintagā naṭin̄cinaṭlayitē, tallidaṇḍrulaku mīru pillalanu konni praśnalu aḍagāli. Kānī mīru atanini lēdā āme mīku teravaḍāniki pillala kōsaṁ man̄ci sambandhānni kaligi uṇḍāli. 1.Pāṭhaśālalō bedirimpu: Kontakālaṁ kritaṁ taṇḍri nannu pilicāḍu mariyu enduku kondaru maḷḷī pāṭhaśālaku veḷlālani anukōlēdu ani telusukōvaḍaṁ. Ā bāluḍu tana taṇḍri tana pāṭhaśālanu mārcukōvālanukuṇṭāḍu. Taṇḍri maroka pāṭhaśālaku veḷḷālani kōrukuṇṭāḍu, kānī ā bāluḍu ēdainā cepp...

ఈరోజు చాలామంది పిల్లలు విభిన్న రకాల సమస్యలతో ఎదుర్కొంటున్నారు . కానీ దురదృష్టకరమైన విషయం ఏమిటంటే చాలామంది తల్లిదండ్రులు తమ యవ్వనంలో ఉన్న పిల్లలను ఏమంటున్నారో మూర్తీభవించిన ఆలోచన కూడా లేదు . నేను వారితో పరస్పరం వ్యవహరించేటప్పుడు నేను తెలుసుకునే కొన్ని సమస్యలను నేను చెబుతాను . యువకులు ఎదుర్కొంటున్న సమస్యలు ఈ క్రిందివి . ఇతర పిల్లలు పాఠశాల వద్ద తోటివారి నుంచి బెదిరింపులు మరియు ఎవరైనా చెప్పడం లేదు బెదిరించారు లేదా తీవ్రంగా వ్యవహరిస్తారు ఎవరు పిల్లలు చాలా ఉన్నాయి . మీ పిల్లవాడు ఇంటికి భయపడి , వింతగా నటించినట్లయితే , తల్లిదండ్రులకు మీరు పిల్లలను కొన్ని ప్రశ్నలు అడగాలి . కానీ మీరు అతనిని లేదా ఆమె మీకు తెరవడానికి పిల్లల కోసం మంచి సంబంధాన్ని కలిగి ఉండాలి .   1.    1.   పాఠశాలలో బెదిరింపు : కొంతకాలం క్రితం తండ్రి నన్ను పిలిచాడు మరియు ఎందుకు కొందరు మళ్ళీ పాఠశాలకు వెళ్లాలని అనుకోలేదు అని తెలుసుకోవడం . ఆ బాలుడు తన తండ్రి తన పాఠశాలను మార్చుకోవాలనుకుంటాడు . తండ్రి మరొక పాఠశాలకు ...